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It is possible to boost boys’ motivation.
Doing so, though, starts with understanding why so boys are unmotivated. A big part of it is developmental: apathy and an “I don’t care/I don’t wanna” attitude commonly show up around puberty. As boy grow from boyhood to adulthood, they begin to question their priorities, interests, and goals. That’s a good thing! AND, it can be incredibly frustrating for parents and teachers who can’t see the behind-the-scenes work, who only see a once-motivated boy pulling back from previous interests and failing to to complete his homework or chores.
Takeaways:
- Apparent lack of motivation is common during boys’ tween & teen years
- Approaching boys with understanding is a lot more effective than nagging
- Parents and teachers can boost boys’ motivation
- ON BOYS co-hosts, Jen & Janet, are hosting an interactive, 3-session class, Boost Boys Motivation: How to Ignite His Spark (Without Nagging or Yelling) in May 2025. Use coupon code ONBOYS to save $50.
Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode:
Adam Price: “He’s Not Lazy” — ON BOYS episode
Listener Q & A: Getting Curious & Motivating Boys — ON BOYS episode
Maggie Dent on How to Motivate Boys — ON BOYS episode
Passion = Motivation = Learning — Building Boys Bulletin 2-14-22